Sister Wives star Kody Brown seems to get all the blame. Or at least that’s how the Sister Wives headlines often describe the role of the family patriarch.

Some even indicate if his wives are unhappy, it’s because he’s an awful husband. Others suggest if his kids shy away from things, that’s because he’s embarrassing.

Sister Wives: Give Kody Brown a Break?

It seems that some of the fans out there feel Kody Brown has done his share of suffering from fan backlash today. After Christine Brown left him last year, the majority of the blame seemed aimed at him.

Anything that crumbled around the Sister Wives family, well — fans blamed him. But did he deserve all the blame? That’s a question being debated by fans today.

Well, a new theory suggests it takes two to tango. It also points out that with 18 kids you’re bound to find one or two peeved at you at any given time. This theory also suggests Kody Brown might not have known what he was doing when he first tried polygamy.

After, all he was only a young man, and someone might have gotten in his ear. So, did someone paint a picture he couldn’t let go of, and is that how his lifestyle of polygamy began?

Kody’s Childhood an Indication?

Sister Wives fans heard about this famous husband’s childhood friends a while back. A few suggested that he needed to be the center of attention even when he was a young school kid.

They joked about Kody taking that need for attention a little too far by marrying four women. By surrounding himself with four wives and a bunch of kids, how can he not help being the center of all the attention?

They all laughed at the time, but it struck a chord with him. Kody suggested they move on from that conversation in a slightly irritated manner.