On 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way, Victor McLean wants to make things right with Ellie Rose so he gets conchy with his proposal. Corey Rathgeber is bummed that nobody from his family is coming to his wedding. Armando Rubio and Kenneth Niedermeier deal with family issues as the wedding draws near. Sumit Singh admits he put the wedding plans on hold to an exasperated Jenny Slatten. And Steven Johnson and Alina set the date. Grab some conch fritters and let’s take a closer look in this recap of Season 3, Episode 13 Don’t Overthink It.

90 Day Fiance: The Other Way: Victor McLean Proposes to Ellie Rose

Victor McLean is tired of Ellie Rose complaining about all the cash she’s given him. The pair had a big fight and now neither is sure they want to stay together. Victor claims that he’s providing a house for them to live in. And that she didn’t send him that much anyway or he’d have scored a set of wheels by now. Ellie thinks he resents her and is upset by the way he went off on her the night before.

Victor suggests a walk on the beach to talk it out on 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way. Ellie agrees and he apologizes and says he won’t ever overreact that way again. He says he had a ring to propose with, but it was another casualty of the hurricane. So he improvises with a rather large conch shell and pops the question. Ellie says yes to the sandy proposal. She holds the shell up to her ear and hears “run”.

This guy is my fighter, the balls to propose with something you picked up on the beach ✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾#90dayfiancetheotherway pic.twitter.com/SPAYC8PXFC

— T-H (@Thabosworld) November 23, 2021

Nobody Is Showing up for Corey Rathgeber on 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way

Things haven’t been easy for Corey Rathgeber lately. Tricked into eating a bull’s member and having to grovel to win Evelin Villegas back. After a winning proposal to his wife that didn’t involve a crustacean’s former home, things seemed to be looking up. Until he realized that no one wants to travel to his big fat Ecuadorian wedding to the woman he’s already married to. He calls his brother to try and convince him to make the trek

Unfortunately, his bro says no. He feels that they have grown apart. And that Evelin gave him an ultimatum to leave his family for her. Next up he visits his only friend in Ecuador, Raul Cabrera. He tells Raul that Evelin does not want him at their wedding. Because he put up an Instagram story of he and Corey out with a couple of girls. Raul gets angry and says he’ll be crashing the wedding because Evelin can’t always get her way.

Corey wanting his family to travel during COVID, to watch him marry Evelin?! #90DayFiance #90DayFianceTheOtherWay pic.twitter.com/M7LSpLwJKB

— Lisa Simpson (@lisa_toes) November 22, 2021

Armando Rubio Stresses over Wedding Dance

Armando Rubio and Kenneth Niedermeier are heading to the venue where they will tie the knot. Kenneth admits to his groom to be that his kids weren’t thrilled with their plans to adopt on 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way. While this hurts Armando, he gets why they might feel that way. After all Kenny did move away from them to be with him. The couple are anxious to tie the knot but Armando has some concerns.

It seems his dad requested that they “be respectful” which he takes to mean no kissing or PDA. Of course Kenny isn’t in agreement that they should refrain from anything. He tells him that it’s their wedding day and they should be free to do as they please. Armando stresses about where he will place his arms when they dance as he doesn’t want to look like “the bride”. Kenny tells him to just go with what feels natural.

Oh God, I want Kenny and Armando to be together forever #90DayFiance#90dayfiancetheotherway pic.twitter.com/WFvEpYVH6w

— ♠️♥️Αφροδιτη Αρεια♠️♥️ (@AeriaAphrodite) October 26, 2020

90 Day Fiance: The Other Way: Sumit Singh Just Can’t Commit

Sumit Singh can’t seem to bite the bullet and marry Jenny Slatten. Poor Jenny has done everything she can to be patient. Putting up with a marriage she didn’t know about, hostile in-laws and being mocked for her messy kitchen. Finally Sumit’s parents backed off. But then he started  getting cold feet. And even put the marriage filing on hold behind her back. He admits this to Jenny finally.

On 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way, a beaten down Jenny just can’t even get angry anymore. Tired of being shunned from family activities, she tells Sumit she’s going home. He doesn’t like when she threatens to leave but he’s giving her no reason to stay. Jenny seeks help at the Hare Krishna temple where a wise follower tells her to leave and call his bluff. Jenny seems determined to do so but scenes from next week show she stays and there just might be a wedding after all.

I wonder if I can fake my own death. #90DayFiance #90dayfiancetheotherway pic.twitter.com/wde9twnMxW

— Dr. Andrew Moe (@andrewsmoe) November 20, 2021

TLC’s Steven Johnson Sets the Date

On 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way, Steven Johnson and Alina are running out of time to marry in Turkey. But they finally get their paperwork together and all goes as planned. As a matter of fact they can marry in a matter of days. While Steven stalled as much as he could, Alina is ready and heads out to find a wedding dress with the help of her wedding planner. Alina opts for a traditional Turkish wedding dress and seems genuinely happy to marry Steven.

One person who isn’t happy at all is Alina’s mom. She reminds Alina that Steven was dishonest and cheated. And wonders if Alina conveniently forgot all that. She also tells her daughter that she doesn’t think Steven is anywhere close to being ready for marriage. And that he broke the commandments of his own church. Alina listens to what her mom has to say. But still plans on marrying Steven in a few days.

Ari suddenly cares what the ppl of Ethiopia think of her marriage but had no issues flaunting her ex husband around the ppl of Ethiopia? #90dayfiancetheotherway #90DayFiance pic.twitter.com/M2Q6X82G4A

— Mya Joseph (@_annamya) November 22, 2021

Biniyam Shibre Tells Ariela Weinberg What She Wants to Hear on 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way

Biniyam Shibre hasn’t just been in the dog house. More like the dog pound. Ariela Weinberg is still upset that her husband went to full on party mode when she went to the U.S. He turned their home into a raucous music studio and got lots of pics with random women. Ariela’s mom Janice Weinberg has left the couple to work it out. But Biniyam enjoyed her being there to run interference between him and Ariela as mentioned in Soap Dirt.

The 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way couple celebrate son Aviel Shibre’s birthday with a camel ride. Ariela has applied for a K-1 visa for Biniyam. Because they can’t stay in Kenya long term and she’s too humiliated to go back to Ethiopia with him. Biniyam admits he really doesn’t want to live in America full time. But he’s afraid to go against Ari. So, he’s